Frequently Asked Questions

  • Dignity, love, and belonging aren’t limited resources. When
    we share them, even in small ways, they ripple outward, touching people close
    to us and then those farther away.

    Love’s Not Zero Sum is more than merch. We’re just getting
    started, but from the very beginning we’re building a community where people
    don’t just buy products; they can become part of a growing family that
    celebrates everyday heroes and artists, shares kindness, and creates real
    opportunities to connect, create, and feel inspired.

    We design meaningful products that spark conversations and
    genuine connection. Love’s Not Zero Sum uses emerging tools to harness care,
    curiosity, creativity, and critical thinking in art, tech, and stories to
    expand human potential and safeguard dignity, agency, and belonging.

  • To reimagine online life by sparking curiosity, creativity,
    kindness, and critical thinking so we can connect more deeply with ourselves,
    each other, and the wider world. Fashion is our starting point, not the finish
    line, and SHE a symbol of our universally shared origin. We do not share
    sameness. We share origin. SHE affirms equal dignity and the right to belong
    for every person.

  • The Kindness Kit is a small, hand-stamped packet containing
    simple ideas designed to spark a drop of kindness — for yourself and others.
    Each kit includes gentle prompts to pause and reflect, an energizing call to
    action that nudges you toward connection, an inspiring Spirits of Humanity and
    Equality (SHE) message reminding you how awesome you can be, and a randomly
    selected vinyl #SHE sticker (one of four unique designs).

    Every kit is truly one-of-a-kind (less than a 1 in 500,000
    chance of a duplicate) and is carefully hand-stamped and assembled in our
    studio.

    It’s a tiny package meant to travel outward: keep it as your
    own reminder that small actions matter, share it with a friend, or leave it for
    a stranger. Pass it on and start a kindness ripple.

  • Absolutely! Kindness Kits make wonderful gifts. They’re a heartfelt
    way to reconnect with friends and family — the kind of thoughtful mail people
    genuinely love receiving. You can also buy extras to spread kindness in
    everyday moments: leave one for a coworker, a stranger, your favorite barista,
    or anyone who could use a little joy. We’ll be adding gift cards soon.

    • WEAR and share your favorite pieces
    • JOIN online conversations and prompts (check out our culture videos on YouTube as they drop)
    • NOMINATE everyday heroes to be spotlighted
    • TELL us about your own kindness moves or ideas for connecting and contributing
    • SHARE feedback and ideas for future collections and characters
    • JOIN upcoming events and community experiences (online and in-person)

    We see you as a collaborator, not just a customer. Your voice helps shape what we create next.

  • This is only the beginning. We’re committed to co-creating
    with our community, building both online and in-person spaces for real
    connection, and staying true to our core values: kindness, curiosity,
    creativity, critical thinking, and genuine belonging.

    When we show up for each other in small ways, those ripples
    can create big, lasting change.